One of the latest trends in American culture, the selfie, is often ridiculed as a symbol of narcissism. However, for many people, a selfie is a way of not only improving one’s self esteem, but helping a person find their identity.
As social media continues to evolve and become part of our daily culture, new trends are popping up all over the place. With apps such as Snapchat and Instagram, the selfie has become just another part of daily life for many people.
The Oxford Dictionary defines a selfie as, “a photograph that one has taken of oneself, typically one taken with a smartphone or webcam and uploaded to a social media website.” The Dictionary also named selfie the word of the year for 2013.
Believe me, I get it. We all have that friend that has very likely posted more pictures of him or herself on the internet than they have braincells left, but despite how annoying this trend is to many, there is a benefit. Some are finding confidence in themselves and comfort in their own skin through posting selfies. In a world where so much emphasis is placed on looks, some people who deal with self esteem issues stemming from their appearance find taking a picture and adding a filter to be therapeutic.
There’s really something intimate about it. It’s you with your camera, generally from your smartphone. You are able to display yourself the way you want to be seen and the way you truly see yourself, not the way others see you. It’s about discovering yourself and learning to not only accept, but appreciate your own beauty.
If models and celebrities have their images intensely Photoshopped for professional uses, what’s the problem with some kid taking a photo of him or herself because it makes him or her just a little bit happier?
People deal with personal issues differently; some seek counseling, some write, some drink or do drugs, but some find solace in taking a selfie.
Do I get tired of seeing pictures of the same person on my newsfeeds? Quite frequently to be honest, but if it makes you feel good about yourself, then by all means continue. However, can we at least lose the duckface?